Meet Up Mess Up

I didnt go to the meet up - my husband decided to come clean with me about the stuff that he has been lying to me about.........ruined my night. I cant even talk about it or I just get upset and angry and I am trying to just leave it alone. Sometimes I wish he would have just kept it to himself. I mean I knew he was lying and I accepted that but it hurts more to hear the truth from the horse mouth. God - how dumb can men be sometimes??????